How can one know if he/she is really in love or just simply infatuated? The person going through this turmoil may not be able to have a good judgment due to his/her state of mind. But a close friend may be able to really see the picture clearly and judge that this is simply an infatuation stage. Of course, it’s another issue when told to get out of this state of mind; there comes terrible fights with friend’s advices. So poor friends, what should you do at this moment? Stay calm, and just be there for the fall to happen and you are there standing with your arm open to make the fall less painful. This is the only way; you will have to make yourself as a pillar to your best friend’s infatuated mind. Just be there for him/her and be yourself with no advice given.